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The Perfect Cock

14 November 2013 3 comments

I was seated at a dinner party a few weeks back when a friend of mine exclaimed that he was just a bit too big for his wife. She responded with "no honey, you're just perfect! I've had too big and it was quite painful!" There was an instant look of dismay and disappointment on my friends face. Most men probably don't want to hear a response like this. It left me thinking; what does the perfect cock look like?

Does size matter?Does size matter?

Is it all about the size?

Is it length, width or both that matters? If you were to pose this question to men they'd say it's definitely all about the size. Luckily for men though, women have other criteria for determining what the perfect cock would look like. Many men suffer from penis envy. It's a common affliction. At public urinals it's not uncommon for men to do a discrete size comparison. Similarly in male change rooms of gyms men often sneak a glance at other men with their pants down. Years ago in a gym change room I remember an extremely well endowed guy who would shower then slowly dry himself, go to the mirror and brush his hair, put his shirt on then parade around a bit chatting with a few other guys...still with his pants off. Most men wouldn't want him at a spa party!

So what other criteria do women use in assessing whether or not their man has the perfect cock? Circumcised or not? Some women hate the idea of going near an uncircumcised cock whilst others don't care either way. Does the bend or straightness matter? Maybe not. A major consideration is a man’s ability to get and maintain an erection. No cock, no matter how big, is of much use if a man has erection problems. Fortunately for men erection problems can often be treated or rectified.

Most women say it's more about how a guy can use it rather than the actual size. No woman wants a man with a huge cock who is more interested in pleasing himself than her, or who is simply too cumbersome in the bedroom. Similarly the huge cock isn't going to be much use if the guy suffers from premature ejaculation.

Just like men, women come in all shapes and sizes.

A man may be too big for one woman, just right for another and too small for another. If he was too small would she tell him? Probably not. Would she tell her girlfriends? Yes she probably would. There wouldn't be many men who could stomach the thought of being too small for their partner. Everyone suffers insecurities at some stage of their life but for men who have hang-ups about the size of their penis that insecurity can be all consuming to the point it adversely affects their relationships.

Does the size of a man’s testicles have any impact upon how big he's perceived by a woman? As far as men are concerned big balls are manly, however most women probably don't really care about their size. Unless a guy is using a lot of steroids, which shrinks testicles considerably, his average size testicles have little impact upon his manhood. In saying this I'm sure that some women like the feeling of testicles slapping against them during sex.

Most women like a man to be less manicured than they are. So, do women like men with unruly pubic hair? Some probably don't care whereas for others they'd rather their man at least trim them up a bit. Times have changed over the years. Men are becoming more manicured. Providing they don't lose their masculinity I think trimming or removing their pubic hair is fine. The upside for men is that trimming or removing pubic hair can actually make their cock look bigger.

Years ago in Vegas, where I'd been for the annual adult video awards, I went to an after party in a huge mansion on the outskirts of town. The party was hosted by one of the big porn producers so as you would expect their 'entertainment' was quite raunchy. The highlight of the night was when we were all summoned to a large lounge room that had a temporary small stage a couple of feet off the ground. A porn star, who I estimated to be no more than 50 kilos, stood up on the stage. The host asked the crowd at the foot of the stage for a volunteer to come up and assist. My hand immediately shot up, but the host picked a lady standing next to me.

The volunteer was given instructions by the host as the porn star jumped up onto a single bed on the stage. I could barely contain my excitement! The host then went onto lube up both hands and arms of the volunteer who then over the next 5-10 minutes slowly inserted one hand, then another and then slid them in way past the wrists. There were gasps of astonishment from the onlookers. The night before I'd been to see David Copperfield perform a magic show at a Vegas casino. Seeing the porn star with the volunteer’s arms protruding from her had me thinking that even David Copperfield would have been impressed with this magic.

In contrast many women can reach orgasm with a man simply inserting a finger or two, providing he's adept and not clumsy. If he knows where the g-spot is and how to stimulate it then, as it's only two to three inches inside, he can often make her orgasm. The point of contrasting this statement with the Vegas porn star story is to demonstrate that a man doesn't have to be huge to pleasure a woman, providing he knows what he's doing. The only other caveats would be that he's attentive, he's not selfish, he's caring and he's affectionate.

I decided to ask some of the women in the adultshop.com head office what they thought the perfect penis looks like. One responded with a wicked smile "eight inches". The others, in summary, responded with; "the perfect size for most women is the size just large enough to fill her fully and push a bit on her cervix and thick enough to rub on her g-spot. What size is that exactly... will vary from woman to woman".

So for guys reading this who suffer from penis envy, I suggest you either buy a penis enlarger (manufacturers claim they really do work), buy a penis extender or you start being a more considerate lover as these kind of guys get the girls! And remember for most women it's all about who's attached to the penis rather than the penis itself.

As always I'd love your feedback.

Delivering passion and pleasure.

Malcolm Day

fairie1983 18 November 2013 at 11:06 am
i am happy with the size of my husbands cock its not the size that matters really its how you use it....im glad that he is circumsized as i think its cleaner and i think it looks nicer,, also a bit of a trim down there doesnt hurt either no one wants pubic hair in there mouth when giving head =) so thats my take on the perfect cock i guess everybody is different =)
Darrell Pratt 19 November 2013 at 9:53 pm
Just a good blog mate I still think having a massive cock would b great for the old party tricks though on a not so serious note.
Chantelle 26 November 2013 at 11:52 am
Well it shouldn't really matter on one or the other..... It all depends on how it is used, personally i dont think any cock is pretty but they are exciting when hard, being circumsized is easy for it to be kept clean but it doesnt make a difference inside a woman in the feeling. My husband isnt circumsized but is expetionally clean down there. Aslong as pubic hair is trimmed and its clean and used well its perfect.....
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