14 May 2015 7 comments

In 1973, it was believed that only men had sexual fantasies. In fact, Cosmo magazine even opened up a feature article that same year with, "Women do not have sexual fantasies, period. Men do." At the time Cosmo were clearly misinformed and hadn't done any research.

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30 April 2015 3 comments

The legendary porn star John Holmes had an exceptionally huge penis, but it wasn't quite a foot! Is it the extra large penis that women are referring to when they say they have a foot fetish? John Holmes reputably slept with over 3,000 women and I'm sure some of those conquests would say yes to this question however the answer is no. So what is the definition of a foot fetish?

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26 February 2015 7 comments

Imagine the surprise of a naive 21 year old woman who unwrapped a Xmas present and realised it was her first vibrator? This is how Mia, our Sales Manager at adultshop.com, was introduced to sex toys. At the time she was shocked and confused. Her first thought after opening her gift was that her husband didn't want to have sex with her anymore. And she dreaded answering the questions from her parents and friends as to what she'd received for Xmas. Fast forward two decades – what's changed?

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27 November 2014 6 comments

When I recently canvassed the opinions of some of the female staff at adultshop.com in relation to what the etiquette was for women's orgasm I wasn't really surprised with their responses (nor their frowns). All believed there was no such etiquette required and that they should orgasm whenever the opportunity arose without any considerations whatsoever. I then asked a few guys at my local gym (over pre workout double espressos) what they thought about a woman's orgasm etiquette. The first two guys, who clearly had a sense of humour, responded with a question - "can women actually orgasm?" The next couple of guys were more insightful and gave me some food for thought.

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9 October 2014 4 comments

"Malcolm – Laters Baby E.L. James X". Lying up on my sun-deck last Saturday afternoon I received a message from a friend of mine (Rob Godwin) who distributes the Fifty Shades of Grey of adult products in Australia. Rob supplies us with these products to sell at adultshop.com. He'd had lunch earlier in London with Erika Leonard (pen name E.L. James and author of the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy) where she signed all three books for me with her now infamous line 'laters baby'. Given I enjoyed reading the books I'm quite thrilled to have autographed copies.

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25 September 2014 8 comments

A few years back I was faced with a quandary - I'd broken up with a long term girlfriend and my headspace dictated that I wasn't ready to jump straight back into another committed relationship, however as an energetic guy with a strong libido I needed a sexual outlet other than self loving. I was out at a bar one night discussing the problem with a female friend, who I'd been friends with for a number of years, when the subject of friends with benefits was broached. After many more drinks together that night we ended up in my bed and so began our friends with benefits hookup.

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7 August 2014 7 comments

I recently caught up with a friend of mine whom I called a 'Cougar'. She's in her forties, still very attractive, is divorced and has two teenage children. She'd been bragging to me about her young "gorgeous boyfriend" who was in his twenties when I suggested she was a cougar. They'd been dating for nearly a year. My assertion that she was a cougar was met with dismay and fierce rebuttal. In fact this is how she responded: "first of all let's get this straight Mal, I'm not a cougar! Just because I was married to someone 9 years younger than me and just because I'm currently involved with someone whose age has a 2 in front of it, whereas mine has a 4 in front, doesn't make me a cougar. In fact when I hear the word cougar it makes me think of a woman who goes out and preys on younger men. And this couldn't be further from the truth in my case!"

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24 July 2014 5 comments

In 1995 I started a premium rate phone dating service that quickly morphed into Australia's largest phone sex business. The business employed over 200 women who worked primarily from a large call centre but also sometimes from home. At its peak in the year 2000 we received 70,000 calls a month from around Australia. And they were charged at the bargain rate of $5.50 per minute! It gave me a good insight into male masturbation and what turns men on.

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26 June 2014 11 comments

"I always prefer to have sex with the average looking escorts rather than the hot model lookalikes!" This was my friend Amit's response when I asked him about the escorts he employed and in particular which ones he had sex with. Back in 2001 I was travelling back and forth to New York where I was finalizing a deal with Amit, the owner of one of New York's largest escort agencies, to create an online worldwide directory of escorts.

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19 June 2014 6 comments

"I think sometimes some guys may watch a bit too much porn and think that throwing women around the bed in a variety of positions and jack-hammering them is what we consider to be great sex...um no!" This was one of the many responses I received from a woman when I did a call out recently asking for what women regard as bad sex.

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