14 May 2015 7 comments

In 1973, it was believed that only men had sexual fantasies. In fact, Cosmo magazine even opened up a feature article that same year with, "Women do not have sexual fantasies, period. Men do." At the time Cosmo were clearly misinformed and hadn't done any research.

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26 February 2015 7 comments

Imagine the surprise of a naive 21 year old woman who unwrapped a Xmas present and realised it was her first vibrator? This is how Mia, our Sales Manager at adultshop.com, was introduced to sex toys. At the time she was shocked and confused. Her first thought after opening her gift was that her husband didn't want to have sex with her anymore. And she dreaded answering the questions from her parents and friends as to what she'd received for Xmas. Fast forward two decades – what's changed?

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25 September 2014 8 comments

A few years back I was faced with a quandary - I'd broken up with a long term girlfriend and my headspace dictated that I wasn't ready to jump straight back into another committed relationship, however as an energetic guy with a strong libido I needed a sexual outlet other than self loving. I was out at a bar one night discussing the problem with a female friend, who I'd been friends with for a number of years, when the subject of friends with benefits was broached. After many more drinks together that night we ended up in my bed and so began our friends with benefits hookup.

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11 September 2014 9 comments

Very late at night a few years ago, whilst roaming the infamous red-light district of Amsterdam, I found myself staring incredulously into the eyes of an attractive prostitute who was in her early forties. We'd just had a long discussion about how many men she'd had sex with and I was wondering how she would explain her sexual history to any potential husband.

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10 July 2014 10 comments

Having your mother find your stash of Playboy magazines, along with a bottle of baby oil and a box of tissues, underneath your bed at the age of 13 is one of the most humiliating and harrowing events any teenage boy could face! Well this happened to me. One afternoon I was horrified when confronted by my stern looking mother who had placed my bag of magazines and 'masturbation necessities' on top of my bed. Due to the embarrassment we both felt, we never needed to talk about it. And I'm glad we didn't! This is not the sort of discussion a teenage boy wants to have with either parent. He's certainly not going to ever admit to masturbating even if he's caught out.

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3 July 2014 3 comments

A while back I was visiting a girlfriend who lived with another girl. It was a Saturday afternoon and I was in the lounge room watching the football. The two girls were trying on dresses in the bedroom. In walked the boyfriend of the other girl. He shook my hand and went straight to the fridge and knocked back a can of beer in one long gulp. He then asked me where his girlfriend was. I told him. Moments later my girlfriend walked out. Then I heard a few minutes of squealing. He then walked back out doing up his zipper, went straight to the fridge and downed another beer with just one long gulp. Then he left.

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24 April 2014 8 comments

Years ago, I had a girlfriend who just laid there in bed waiting for me to turn her on without reciprocating. After debating with myself afterwards, I was often left confused as to whether or not she was really into me, whether she was stone cold frigid or just inexperienced in the art of pleasure. She was certainly affectionate – until we were naked. For the first few months of seeing each other I'm not sure if she realised I even had a cock as she never touched it. I could have in fact been inserting a vibrator or wearing a strap on dong for all she knew.

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3 April 2014 3 comments

One reader, in response to my post last week, thought I was suggesting the easiest way for a man to improve his libido was to get a new younger girlfriend. Whilst this may in fact increase a man's sexual desire in some instances I certainly wasn't advocating he take this course of action.

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13 March 2014 6 comments

Over the last few days there's been a lot of media interest in Anna and Lucy DeCinque, 28 year old Perth twin sisters, who not only share the same bed but also share the same boyfriend. The three of them have sex together. It's an open relationship that they claim is working. Why can open relationships work for some couples and not others?

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5 September 2013 3 comments

If ladies think the way to a man's heart is through his stomach then they're aiming a touch high! If she can't cook then it's not the end of the world, however if she can't satisfy her man in the bedroom, and equally he can't satisfy her, then ultimately the relationship is probably doomed. Over time women can learn to cook and similarly over time they can learn how to turn their man on. I'm about to share with you 10 guaranteed ways to excite most men in the bedroom.

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