4 June 2015 5 comments

In October last year Canadian scientists published an interesting report in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in relation to their study of sexual fantasies. The objective of the study was to determine what sexual fantasies are prevalent and, what are unusual and rare.

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12 June 2014 5 comments

Years ago, I had a gorgeous girlfriend who was a part time model. Whilst she wasn't the smartest girl I've dated she ticked most of the other boxes. Over time she became a great cook and excelled in the kitchen. She gave me regular massages, cleaned my house, ironed my shirts and was great in the bedroom with an insatiable sexual appetite. I loved taking her out and showing her off to my friends. They worshipped her and so did I for many months. She appeared to be the trophy girlfriend. I thought she was almost perfect.

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8 May 2014 7 comments

A few weeks back a friend arrived at my doorstep crying and shaking uncontrollably. He'd just found out his wife of eight years had been cheating on him with multiple men over an extended period of time. They've been together for fifteen years and have young children. His world changed the moment he confronted her about her infidelity.

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27 March 2014 4 comments

Early last year a friend of mine was constantly lamenting his low libido. Every time we caught up, the subject of his low sex drive would feature heavily in our chats. He's in his early forties, has been married for over ten years and has a few young children. And he just didn't feel like having sex very often with his wife! I suggested he have some blood tests done and discuss the results with his doctor or a specialist. There are a number of factors that could adversely impact upon a man's sex drive. Hormonal issues, like low levels of testosterone, can often be a problem for men when they hit their forties. At the time I thought it was more than likely that he had low testosterone levels.

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6 March 2014 1 comment

Tracey Cox is an international sex, body language and relationships expert, who's authored 15 related books. I was lucky enough to have a chat with her this week whilst she was in Australia on a well deserved break from the UK winter. We mostly talked about our separate trips to Mykonos (we both love Namos Beach Club) and also the Venus Fair in Berlin (an adult industry trade show where they used to have live sex in many of the booths), however we also managed to discuss a few topics that I'm sure you'd be interested to hear about.

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27 February 2014 1 comment

Last week I covered off what I think are the most important "Do's" when it comes to swinging. I realise swinging isn't for all couples however for those who do like to, or are interested in actively sharing their partner with another couple, it's probably more important to understand the Don'ts than the Do's. Here are my views on the most important Don'ts:

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20 February 2014 2 comments

As a teenager, I remember hearing whispers of 'key parties'. Supposedly adult couples would attend these parties where later in the night the men would throw their car keys in the swimming pool. The women would then dive in and surface with a set of keys. Whoever the keys belonged to, was who she'd willingly have sex with. Maybe these parties were simply the figment of imagination of young teenage boys.

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30 January 2014 9 comments

Back in 1995 I started up a premium rate phone dating business that quickly morphed into an adult phone entertainment business turning over $1.5 million a month in Australia. One of the most popular ads we ran in local newspaper personal's was 'Hot horny housewives seek casual daytime sex'. At the time I never dreamed how popular this simple 3 line ad would be. In fact the ad was so successful we ran it in many national adult magazines with pictures of 'hot housewives'. There were a lot more people seeking casual sex compared to those seeking romance!

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23 January 2014 4 comments

A couple of years ago I was on a plane flying across to Sydney when I became entrenched in a conversation with a woman sitting alongside of me. She was in her early 60's and had just left her husband of circa 40 years, and she was extremely excited about her immediate future. Apparently she just woke up one day and thought "life is just flying by and I'm bored watching it happen". She explained to me that she was planning to travel around Australia and then the world, all by herself. I remember thinking she was having a late midlife crisis!

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3 October 2013 5 comments

When I was in my early twenties I went along to a party with a buddy of mine, Paul. He introduced me to his cousin, Steve. Later that night Steve and I found ourselves flirting with a girl whom we'd met at the party. I remember the girl going to the bathroom and Steve and I haggling over who was going to 'try their best with her'. Before she arrived back we'd decided that we should "join forces" so to speak. Somehow or other the three of us ended up in my bed that night. It turned out to be the first threesome experience for all of us and luckily for all of us it was fantastic. It was random, unexpected and totally hot.

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