4 June 2015 5 comments

In October last year Canadian scientists published an interesting report in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in relation to their study of sexual fantasies. The objective of the study was to determine what sexual fantasies are prevalent and, what are unusual and rare.

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27 November 2014 6 comments

When I recently canvassed the opinions of some of the female staff at adultshop.com in relation to what the etiquette was for women's orgasm I wasn't really surprised with their responses (nor their frowns). All believed there was no such etiquette required and that they should orgasm whenever the opportunity arose without any considerations whatsoever. I then asked a few guys at my local gym (over pre workout double espressos) what they thought about a woman's orgasm etiquette. The first two guys, who clearly had a sense of humour, responded with a question - "can women actually orgasm?" The next couple of guys were more insightful and gave me some food for thought.

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13 November 2014 7 comments

When and where men ejaculate are important considerations. No woman wants to experience the hair gel look that Cameron Diaz displayed in the hit movie There's Something About Mary. And most women don't like a surprise when it comes to a man's orgasm.

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7 August 2014 7 comments

I recently caught up with a friend of mine whom I called a 'Cougar'. She's in her forties, still very attractive, is divorced and has two teenage children. She'd been bragging to me about her young "gorgeous boyfriend" who was in his twenties when I suggested she was a cougar. They'd been dating for nearly a year. My assertion that she was a cougar was met with dismay and fierce rebuttal. In fact this is how she responded: "first of all let's get this straight Mal, I'm not a cougar! Just because I was married to someone 9 years younger than me and just because I'm currently involved with someone whose age has a 2 in front of it, whereas mine has a 4 in front, doesn't make me a cougar. In fact when I hear the word cougar it makes me think of a woman who goes out and preys on younger men. And this couldn't be further from the truth in my case!"

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3 July 2014 3 comments

A while back I was visiting a girlfriend who lived with another girl. It was a Saturday afternoon and I was in the lounge room watching the football. The two girls were trying on dresses in the bedroom. In walked the boyfriend of the other girl. He shook my hand and went straight to the fridge and knocked back a can of beer in one long gulp. He then asked me where his girlfriend was. I told him. Moments later my girlfriend walked out. Then I heard a few minutes of squealing. He then walked back out doing up his zipper, went straight to the fridge and downed another beer with just one long gulp. Then he left.

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26 June 2014 11 comments

"I always prefer to have sex with the average looking escorts rather than the hot model lookalikes!" This was my friend Amit's response when I asked him about the escorts he employed and in particular which ones he had sex with. Back in 2001 I was travelling back and forth to New York where I was finalizing a deal with Amit, the owner of one of New York's largest escort agencies, to create an online worldwide directory of escorts.

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19 June 2014 6 comments

"I think sometimes some guys may watch a bit too much porn and think that throwing women around the bed in a variety of positions and jack-hammering them is what we consider to be great sex...um no!" This was one of the many responses I received from a woman when I did a call out recently asking for what women regard as bad sex.

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10 April 2014 10 comments

Should a real man trim or remove hair from and around his groin? Up until a few years ago this was probably only something gay men would do however these days it's becoming more prevalent with straight men. Why are more men becoming obsessed with 'manscaping'? And what do women think about it?

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20 February 2014 2 comments

As a teenager, I remember hearing whispers of 'key parties'. Supposedly adult couples would attend these parties where later in the night the men would throw their car keys in the swimming pool. The women would then dive in and surface with a set of keys. Whoever the keys belonged to, was who she'd willingly have sex with. Maybe these parties were simply the figment of imagination of young teenage boys.

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28 November 2013 6 comments

Years ago, when I was conducting exploration surveys in remote Western Australia, I remember sitting around a bush camp fire one night with my field hand listening to him trying his best to impress me with his incredulous stories of sexual prowess. Apparently he was having an affair with a married woman who lived down the road from him. He did his best to convince me that he often slipped through a bedroom window and into her bed late at night and had sex with her very quietly whilst her husband slept alongside of her. I at least found him entertaining!

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