24 July 2014 5 comments

In 1995 I started a premium rate phone dating service that quickly morphed into Australia's largest phone sex business. The business employed over 200 women who worked primarily from a large call centre but also sometimes from home. At its peak in the year 2000 we received 70,000 calls a month from around Australia. And they were charged at the bargain rate of $5.50 per minute! It gave me a good insight into male masturbation and what turns men on.

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10 July 2014 10 comments

Having your mother find your stash of Playboy magazines, along with a bottle of baby oil and a box of tissues, underneath your bed at the age of 13 is one of the most humiliating and harrowing events any teenage boy could face! Well this happened to me. One afternoon I was horrified when confronted by my stern looking mother who had placed my bag of magazines and 'masturbation necessities' on top of my bed. Due to the embarrassment we both felt, we never needed to talk about it. And I'm glad we didn't! This is not the sort of discussion a teenage boy wants to have with either parent. He's certainly not going to ever admit to masturbating even if he's caught out.

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3 July 2014 3 comments

A while back I was visiting a girlfriend who lived with another girl. It was a Saturday afternoon and I was in the lounge room watching the football. The two girls were trying on dresses in the bedroom. In walked the boyfriend of the other girl. He shook my hand and went straight to the fridge and knocked back a can of beer in one long gulp. He then asked me where his girlfriend was. I told him. Moments later my girlfriend walked out. Then I heard a few minutes of squealing. He then walked back out doing up his zipper, went straight to the fridge and downed another beer with just one long gulp. Then he left.

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26 June 2014 11 comments

"I always prefer to have sex with the average looking escorts rather than the hot model lookalikes!" This was my friend Amit's response when I asked him about the escorts he employed and in particular which ones he had sex with. Back in 2001 I was travelling back and forth to New York where I was finalizing a deal with Amit, the owner of one of New York's largest escort agencies, to create an online worldwide directory of escorts.

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19 June 2014 6 comments

"I think sometimes some guys may watch a bit too much porn and think that throwing women around the bed in a variety of positions and jack-hammering them is what we consider to be great sex...um no!" This was one of the many responses I received from a woman when I did a call out recently asking for what women regard as bad sex.

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24 April 2014 8 comments

Years ago, I had a girlfriend who just laid there in bed waiting for me to turn her on without reciprocating. After debating with myself afterwards, I was often left confused as to whether or not she was really into me, whether she was stone cold frigid or just inexperienced in the art of pleasure. She was certainly affectionate – until we were naked. For the first few months of seeing each other I'm not sure if she realised I even had a cock as she never touched it. I could have in fact been inserting a vibrator or wearing a strap on dong for all she knew.

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28 November 2013 6 comments

Years ago, when I was conducting exploration surveys in remote Western Australia, I remember sitting around a bush camp fire one night with my field hand listening to him trying his best to impress me with his incredulous stories of sexual prowess. Apparently he was having an affair with a married woman who lived down the road from him. He did his best to convince me that he often slipped through a bedroom window and into her bed late at night and had sex with her very quietly whilst her husband slept alongside of her. I at least found him entertaining!

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26 September 2013 2 comments

Whilst we're all different with what turns us on, and men are vastly different to women when it comes to what constitutes great sex, it appears we all have one thing in common. It's the need for an emotional connection. It's that feeling of being wanted and desired, that feeling of mutual attraction and that flood of lust that heightens sex to the point where we deem it great sex. I had many responses to the questions I raised in last week's blog.

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12 September 2013 8 comments

Last week I became increasingly frustrated reading through the many comments and messages I received from women citing what turned them on in the bedroom. I was chuffed they'd responded to my call out, but most of the feedback I received was all about what turned women on outside the bedroom. Initially I was perplexed and thought I hadn't posed the question well enough, and then the penny dropped. It turns out that for women it's usually about what a man does before he gets to the bedroom that gets her in the mood.

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5 September 2013 3 comments

If ladies think the way to a man's heart is through his stomach then they're aiming a touch high! If she can't cook then it's not the end of the world, however if she can't satisfy her man in the bedroom, and equally he can't satisfy her, then ultimately the relationship is probably doomed. Over time women can learn to cook and similarly over time they can learn how to turn their man on. I'm about to share with you 10 guaranteed ways to excite most men in the bedroom.

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