4 June 2015 4 comments

In October last year Canadian scientists published an interesting report in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in relation to their study of sexual fantasies. The objective of the study was to determine what sexual fantasies are prevalent and, what are unusual and rare.

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14 May 2015 7 comments

In 1973, it was believed that only men had sexual fantasies. In fact, Cosmo magazine even opened up a feature article that same year with, "Women do not have sexual fantasies, period. Men do." At the time Cosmo were clearly misinformed and hadn't done any research.

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12 March 2015 2 comments

These days it's rare for me to come across new sex toys that are truly innovative and revolutionary. Whilst I regularly travel internationally to trade shows scouting for new products it's seldom that I discover any that leave me excited about their potential for sales. So when I received an email from a friend who distributes sex toys in Germany detailing the overwhelming sales success (they sold over 12,000 in the first 7 weeks) of a new product called the Womanizer my attention was piqued.

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13 November 2014 7 comments

When and where men ejaculate are important considerations. No woman wants to experience the hair gel look that Cameron Diaz displayed in the hit movie There's Something About Mary. And most women don't like a surprise when it comes to a man's orgasm.

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24 July 2014 5 comments

In 1995 I started a premium rate phone dating service that quickly morphed into Australia's largest phone sex business. The business employed over 200 women who worked primarily from a large call centre but also sometimes from home. At its peak in the year 2000 we received 70,000 calls a month from around Australia. And they were charged at the bargain rate of $5.50 per minute! It gave me a good insight into male masturbation and what turns men on.

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13 March 2014 6 comments

Over the last few days there's been a lot of media interest in Anna and Lucy DeCinque, 28 year old Perth twin sisters, who not only share the same bed but also share the same boyfriend. The three of them have sex together. It's an open relationship that they claim is working. Why can open relationships work for some couples and not others?

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6 March 2014 1 comment

Tracey Cox is an international sex, body language and relationships expert, who's authored 15 related books. I was lucky enough to have a chat with her this week whilst she was in Australia on a well deserved break from the UK winter. We mostly talked about our separate trips to Mykonos (we both love Namos Beach Club) and also the Venus Fair in Berlin (an adult industry trade show where they used to have live sex in many of the booths), however we also managed to discuss a few topics that I'm sure you'd be interested to hear about.

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27 February 2014 1 comment

Last week I covered off what I think are the most important "Do's" when it comes to swinging. I realise swinging isn't for all couples however for those who do like to, or are interested in actively sharing their partner with another couple, it's probably more important to understand the Don'ts than the Do's. Here are my views on the most important Don'ts:

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20 February 2014 2 comments

As a teenager, I remember hearing whispers of 'key parties'. Supposedly adult couples would attend these parties where later in the night the men would throw their car keys in the swimming pool. The women would then dive in and surface with a set of keys. Whoever the keys belonged to, was who she'd willingly have sex with. Maybe these parties were simply the figment of imagination of young teenage boys.

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21 November 2013 14 comments

All men love a good blow job! In fact many men would probably rather a blowjob, that brings them to orgasm, than to have a full on sex session. It's certainly easier for a man to lie back and relax while he gets a blowjob, than to think about pleasing his partner. Maybe this is why some women just don't do it too well? They don't want the blowjob to be the main event for him...or maybe they just don't know how to give a fantastic blow job.

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