Its normal to get harder, softer, really hard, even harder, sort of medium soft, almost lose it, then get really hard again before you orgasm! The amount of blood in the penis affects how hard you are and it’s driven by arousal. You don’t stay at exactly the same level of excitement during a sex session, so it’s logical that your penis won’t either!
Most of the time you won’t even notice this happening, but if you do notice your erection going down, don’t panic! Your natural inclination will be to tense up. Don’t do it! It will cut off the blood flow, which is what gives you your erection in the first place. Instead, relax into it. Focus. Rest your penis and the muscles around it. Take a break and pleasure your partner instead – it will take the pressure off and help to calm you down. Then start again, focusing on all the sensations you’re feeling, rather than how hard you’re getting (or not).
Willy, won’t he
Many men will find it difficult to get or keep an erection at some time in their lives. The occasional let-down though is different from having erection problems most of the time. Constant erection problems will not only undermine your confidence, but prevent you from having a satisfying sex life. So if you’re regularly unable to gain or maintain an erection, you may have the medical condition that doctors call “erectile dysfunction” or “ED”. The bad news is that this medical condition affects men of many different ages, but the good news is that treatment is available, so talk to your doctor if your problems persist.
When the compass points south, not north
Occasional erectile difficulty is quite normal and may be the result of too much alcohol, stress and anxiety, even a lack of sleep. Keeping physically fit goes a long way towards keeping dick handy and hard, as does keeping emotionally healthy. The penis is a part of the body just like any other organ, so is susceptible to negative emotions, which is why depression is the leading cause of aborting mission to blast off! Cigarette smoking not only kills you, it kills your ability to get a woody. The nicotine in cigarettes constricts the arteries, and the tiny little capillaries in the penis are the first to feel it. Even your sweet tooth may be killing your ability to feel the sweet shudders of orgasm as men with diabetes often experience erectile difficulties too.
Pump it up
If the problem’s not permanent then you have a few options for getting your woody back, including using a penis pump to get you hard. Penis pumps work on the principle of vacuum aspiration. Through squeezing a bulb or working a plunger, the air is sucked out of the cylinder covering the shaft. As the air is suctioned out and a vacuum is created, your penis gets pulled into the cylinder and extra blood rushes into the erectile tissue creating greater than average engorgement – the same process involved in getting an erection!
Just as the human body is able to expand muscle and tissue when it gets a work out, regular penis pumping is one of the most effective methods of getting harder - faster, as well as adding some more meat to your manhood! Penis pumps are like a gym workout for your favourite tool, increasing length and girth with every session. We have a fabulous range of penis pumps for you to choose from, check them out here:
A pumped up cock will not interfere with the pleasure of a climax or orgasm, but it may decrease the force of your ejaculation. A penis ring can help here – it works to keep you rock solid and to prolong the point of no return. adultshop.com has penis rings in all sizes, shapes and colours, ranging from traditional no-fuss steel and studded leather rings through jelly varieties with vibrating stimulators for dual satisfaction, to deluxe varieties that ring the cock as well as the balls and titillate with a removable vibrating bullet! Check them out here:
The good wood
Another no-fuss option for getting your woody back, free from any unpleasant drug-related side effects, is the amazing Pjur Superhero Prolonging Performance Spray for men.
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Pjur Superhero Prolonging Performance Spray has been specially developed to refresh the genital area and to prolong the act of love making. It reduces sensitivity, increases suppleness and extends both the fun and the pleasure!
Pjur Superhero Prolonging Performance Spray is a cosmetic product designed for external application to the penis. With just a few squirts of the spray you’ll find him lasting long into the night. It’s also completely free of lidnocaine and benzecaine making it safe to use again and again, even with condoms. It’s the most effective alternative on the market today for enhancing a flagging sex life, totally free from any unpleasant drug-related side effects.
The last word
Erectile problems can strike at any point in a man’s life; it’s not just a grandfather syndrome! Men who experience erectile difficulty in their younger years often suffer acute embarrassment, fear and worry, because they simply don’t expect it to happen to them when they are young. And then as you get older, your body ages, and like fine wine – some parts get mellower! The raging hard-ons you experienced when you were twenty are, at sixty, a thing of the past. Older men have erections less frequently, and the time in between them is longer. But although there may be many reasons for intermittent erectile problems, remember…help is at hand!
And finally if you are suffering from any kind of erectile difficulty, you can assure yourself that a temporary inability to get a hard-on doesn’t mean you’ve lost your machismo! A hard-on is not everything! Granted it’s pretty important if intercourse is your main aim, but you can also get a huge amount of pleasure from giving your partner pleasure too! And it will be thoroughly appreciated, let me tell you! Cultures around the world and throughout time have exalted the prowess of a lover. And prowess is not always defined by being hard, but also by being creative, skilful and generous. Enjoy!